Refugee from reddit. Ex mod there of v. large sub.
This gives me hope:
This site is all about getting answers. It's not a discussion forum. There's no chit-chat.
We respect a laser-like focus on one topic.
For the avoidance of doubt, I am male. Use of gender-neutral language is a denigration of that, and knowing usage of such language is inappropriate and likely to offend or alienate.